When you’ve just separated everyone is quick to tell you  that you need to move on.  Moving on is not quite as simple as it sounds.  You first need to know where you are (financially, physically and very importantly emotionally). Equally as important, you need to know where you want to be (financially, physically and emotionally) before you can start to take steps towards your objective.

In the midst of your break-up it is difficult to have true clarity without help from someone who is equipped to help you focus.  Do not be afraid to ask for help. Ultimately make a decision from whom you will accept help based upon your research and trust your gut to help you decide.